Although a slightly different board (DH87MC), I am having a similar (but not exact) issue: http://communities.intel.com/message/202847#202847.
It will randomly BSOD if I have 16GB (4GB x 4) installed. I am OK with 8GB (4GB x2).
I wonder if they are related?
I have had problems with the RAM that you are using on several recent Intel boards. I had to go with the "standard height" model (KVR1333D3N9H/4G) and it seems to work better.